Forgiveness

Well...christmas is coming and i just read about "forgiveness" and i totally agree with what i read so i just feel like sharing this ...here we go


Forgiveness works! It is often difficult, AND it works!
We often think of forgiveness as something that someone who has done us wrong must ask of US. There is always another way of looking at something. My thoughts on forgiveness suggest that you focus on offering forgiveness TO the person who has wronged you. To not forgive them is like taking the poison (continuing to suffer for what they did or didn't do to you) and expecting THEM to die!
Alexander Pope once said, "To err is human; to forgive, Divine." Believe it!
Forgiveness is a gift you give to yourself. It is not something you do FOR someone else. It is not complicated. It is simple. Simply identify the situation to be forgiven and ask yourself: "Am I willing to waste my energy further on this matter?" If the answer is "No," then that's it! All is forgiven.
Forgiveness is an act of the imagination. It dares you to imagine a better future, one that is based on the blessed possibility that your hurt will not be the final word on the matter. It challenges you to give up your destructive thoughts about the situation and to believe in the possibility of a better future. It builds confidence that you can survive the pain and grow from it.
Telling someone is a bonus! It is not necessary for forgiveness to begin the process that heals the hurt. Forgiveness has little or nothing to do with another person because forgiveness is an internal matter.
Choice is always present in forgiveness. You do not have to forgive AND there are consequences. Refusing to forgive by holding on to the anger, resentment and a sense of betrayal can make your own life miserable. A vindictive mind-set creates bitterness and lets the betrayer claim one more victim.
 hohoho merry xtimas to everyone :)

you are still the one :)

When I first saw you, I saw love.And the first time you touched me, I felt love.And after all this time, you're still the one I love. :)

a day to chill...a day to remember =]

luv ya

future?

what i was thinking in that pic? im quite sure that i was thinking about how great we r together! how my world is complete with u now. thanks

happy!

check out this pic! lol im smiling like a crazy! Chris is more than my boyfriend...he is my fiance...he is more than fiance...he is my friend! more than friend...MY BEST FRIEND!i always say that to him.

Love u christian! thanks for making me feel like that! sooooooooooooo happy!

ps: nothing is perfect..............flamenguista was in my pic =s=s hahaha

Us

and he is the one who is making me feel alive =] he is the one i wanna spend the rest of my life with!

Love u all!

OMG! i met those people when i was studying journalism in university! we graduated in 2005 and guess what? 5 years later we r still together.thats friendship! I LOVE U GUYS! I REALLY DO! lets meet up often now huh!