Christmas time.

Sometimes we just need some trust.

When trust is gone can be really complicated but not irreversible .

When the other part tries hard to keep the true and honest... When they take other attitudes and actions in order to make things ok from that day ok.... This can be easily reversible ...

But if all that the other offers is lie and pain... When he keeps doing the same things and keep the same old people who once helped to get the problem even bigger just mean one thing : you mean nothing to him.

Christimas time ... Time to forgive ... Time to apologies ...

We can't forgive those who doesn't know why they should ask for forgiveness ...

This time once again... God showed me that it's fucking time to let it go.

Lesson learned 

Oh my!

I never thought that I would get this words today: 

" I would love it if you were to come to the US during your vacay, but thats not why I did it.  I would love it if me staying made you happy, but thats not why I did it.  I did it because I love you... and although there is definitely a part of me that wants to go home, I want you to know that I love you more."

Lonely

Today I understood a bit better my feelings linked to loneliness.

In fact this is linked to be surrounded by people who doesn't care about you ... Who doesn't listen to you.

Took me a long time to realize it but I finally did .

Listen

There is nothing more unattractive than a man who doesn't know what he wants ... Doesn't know what he does and , of course , doesn't have a clue about the consequences of his (lack of ) actions.

In general, I like people who knows what they want, fight for it and go deep in order to find their own answers and fix whatever has to be fixed.

It is always sad to end a relationship. But sometimes the other person doesn't give you any other choice.

I'm letting you go for good because you already let us go long long long time ago.

Once he asked me to " never press pause "... Sadly that's all he said ... He never gave me a reason for it . 

Now I'm pressing " stop" and honestly wishing you the best.

I am not looking for love ... But when it happen again , I hope it last... I hope it's true and genuine.

I'm really tired of all this plans who never come true... Tired of waiting and waiting until you see the whole demage that you caused.

Tired of crossing my fingers and hope that you choose me in the end.

Love is not like that.... Love Is the certain ... Not doubt.

I do believe in love and I feel sorry for those who can share it... Who can't show it... Who can't feel it and enjoy it 

Living and learning.

Fall out of love

To me everything was clear :D

But after reading this .... Hahahahaha

Just sharing it :

A bad foundation For a relationship and love to last, there has to be a very solid foundation for things to rest and grow upon. Maybe your relationship started off really shaky but you stayed together instead of taking time to fix things. Or maybe your relationship moved way too fast and important parts of building a relationship were missed. Relationships and love take time, effort, and energy. When a relationship has a bad foundation, eventually it will crumble

Lies and lack of trust Being betrayed is one of the worst things that can happen in a relationship. There is nothing worse than losing your trust in someone because they lied, cheated, or hid something important from you. Lies lead to lost trust and when trust isn’t there, love probably isn’t going to be there either. In some cases, the damage is done and is irreparable.

 

No communication You’ve heard it and read it before, but communication is vital if a relationship is going to last more than a few months. When the communication in a relationship is gone, it leaves a lot of room for conflict and untalked about emotions and problems. Instead, these issues build up, you two become more distant, and in the end one or both of you loses the emotions you once had for each other. Communication is a must for love to exist and to continue growing 

 

Being taken for granted You don’t know what you had until it’s gone. In some relationships, couples will take each other, and their relationship, for granted. Many people go into a relationship or even a marriage with the idea that love is unconditional and no matter what, their partner will be in love with them. However, when laziness sets in and respect starts to become a thing of the past, it’s easy for someone to fall out of love.

 

Lack of excitement In order to keep a relationship fresh, there has to be some excitement and fun in it. When a relationship becomes boring or even exhausting, it can definitely take an emotional toll on the people who are involved in it. It’s hard to continue to love someone when your relationship has become a monotonous routine. No relationship can stay in the honeymoon phase forever, but when the sparks are lost, emotions can be lost too

 

Secrets revealed In a relationship, it’s best to be the real you and not keep any secrets. However, a lot of people are known for telling white lies or lying their way out of things in order to keep something else hidden. Finding out that your partner is a closet drug user or discovering that your partner really isn’t who he/she acts or says to be can definitely take a toll on your emotions. It’s hard to love someone who isn’t the person you thought they were.

 

 

Lack of support When you’re in a relationship with someone, you expect them to support you in all ways possible. You want to know that your partner supports your career decisions, educational decisions, and even personal decisions. When you no longer support the person you’re with, emotional issues are bound to arise. Being in a relationship is all about being in your partner’s corner, always. When you’re no longer there, you begin to pull your emotions back.

 

 

 

 

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So yesterday!

Some plans were just written on paper...

This is gone .

Little messages :)

I know you read my blog :)

And I like to know that I have somehow someone over there who thinks of me.

This little mesaages have been making my day lately .

Thank you.